‘A home is where the heart is’, is a very apt saying and it will be rightly apt to say that ‘BEDROOM’ is the most important chamber of your home heart, for it is the most private, intimate room of your house. It is that calm and serene corner of your house, which, if decorated and set up in an appropriate manner, can spark up and ignite the love life of the couples.
According to the ancient sciences of Vaastushastra and fengshui, there are several principles, which if borne in mind, can actually encourage harmony, strike balance, create passion, discourage relationship stresses, encourage stability and offer romantic retreat to the couples.
So, all those couples who wish to spend time together with a sense of tranquility, inspiring romance, the following tips will be worth the effort:
1. Appropriate and apt lighting: Both Vaastushastra and fengshui consider appropriate and apt lighting as the most important factor, as it encourages positivity and creates just the right ambience required by the couples to get intimate and strengthen their relationship. Let the sunlight brighten up your special room during the daytime as it brings in positive energy.
2. Colour Scheme: Opt for light green, blues, light creams and pastel shades as they are calm and soothing. A tinge of reds would offer the required warmth.
3. Decoration: Adorn your bedroom walls with one or maximum two artwork depicting erotic or sensual images (non-vulgar). Invest some time in picking up the art pieces which convey a sense of serenity while suggesting intimacy. Along with this, further brighten up the place with attractive bed lamps/ lampshades to complement the romantic theme of your bedroom and further beautify it by placing photographs/ collage of both of you, to help create and ambience, wherein you can cherish the memories of romantic and happy moments spent together. This would help you two to get more intimate.
4. Aromatic Candles: Spread and fill up your room with a fragrant scent using scented candles, fragrant flowers or aromatic oils, as it will set the stage for right emotions and help you to unwind, relax, energize as well as soothe and arouse you!!!
5. Better to Avoid: For all those couples wanting high levels of intimacy, a firm decision of keeping television sets, computers, exercise equipment and importantly clutter, would well be worth the effort- as it would help provide the JUST AMBIENCE required to relax and set your sexual inner being take off and fly.
Try these tips and see a dramatic improvement in your sex life and also reap the benefits of a tranquil environment to help both of you de-stress and relax in each other’s company.