Ah, how wonderful it is to be in love! Every time you meet the special one, it’s a thrill. Every moment together is magic. You two were made for each other, you are so utterly, utterly compatible.
You know the feeling. Alas, it doesn’t last. Which is not an entirely bad thing, because that means both of you are in the real world now and can deal realistically with the challenge of building a life together.
Unfortunately, that’s when things start going south. Your partner starts to get on your nerves. She/he is too controlling, spends too much, is too miserly, is a chatterbox, is quieter than a monk – the list goes on.
Left unaddressed, this could lead to a vicious cycle of mutual anger, distance and even a collapse of the relationship. So, get a grip on yourself, and follow some tips on how to restore a relationship when you find your partner is getting on your nerves.
- Don’t be judgemental
- Own up to the part that you play in the dynamics of your relationship
- Improve yourself first before trying to change your partner
- Don’t be annoying
- You and your partner are allies, not enemies
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Is Your Partner Annoying The Crap Out of You?