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  • Causes of Premature Ejaculation
  • Symptoms and Diagnoses of Premature Ejaculation
  • Treatment of Premature Ejaculation

What is Premature Ejaculation (PME or PE)?

Before we discuss all that man hardware, let’s first talk about the importance of having a positive outlook. This is required no matter what type of problem you’re solving, whether it’s changing a tire, getting a job promotion, stopping yourself from swearing out in public, or controlling your ejaculation. The fear and anxiety you feel, and the negative thoughts that soak into your mind, are only going to make more problems for you. So instead of thinking of Premature Ejaculation as a serious problem, let’s start viewing it in a more positive light. It’s not a problem. It’s an opportunity that you have to better yourself as a man, as a lover, and as an intelligent, discerning mind. You’re no longer going to let fear or negativity control you. 

Becoming a longer-lasting lover is your new goal, and you’re taking this new goal seriously, just as you would take a job search very seriously. Any goal requires personal determination, discipline, and consistency for days, weeks, and months on end. You must be confident and committed.

For starters, let’s discuss what premature ejaculation means. It is also known as “Shighrapatan” in Hindi.

Premature ejaculation is not so cut and dry a term to define. After all, there is no official time and score in sex like there is in basketball. Most scientific authorities describe premature ejaculation as “Ejaculation during the early stages of sexual excitement.” However, who decides how early is too early? What one man thinks of as amazing staying power might seem to another man to be weak. What one woman thinks of as a long session in bed, another woman might consider much too short. The agreed-upon definition is “coming too quickly,” orgasming, and ejaculating before you or your lover are ready to stop. 

For many men, this “point of no return” happens shortly after the penis is put into the vagina. It is believed that anywhere from twenty to forty percent of the male population suffer from “early ejaculation” at some stage in their lives, and you have to believe that an even higher percentage lies about their sexual stamina or lack thereof. Premature ejaculation is not a habit you want to keep, but at the same time, it shouldn’t be your secret shame or something that you want to hide. 

While some men do go to the doctor for this issue, the chance that something is medically wrong with them is pretty low. This is usually a learned behavior, and it’s something that a lot of guys probably suffer from, and yet very few admit to it. So at least you have the honesty to say, “Okay…I have this problem. Tell me how to overcome it.” With this attitude, you WILL overcome PE, and you will instantly be a better and smarter lover than the many guys who just jump into bed without a clue. 

While some people say they are not being able to last five minutes or less than 500 strokes, there are no standards that measure this. Premature ejaculation is simply being unable to satisfy a specific woman. After all, if your lover has no complaints, is there really a problem? Of course, on average, women do tend to take longer than five or even ten minutes to orgasm. Some women take 15 minutes; some women could take an hour! 

The first step is figuring out how long your lover wants to go, how long she wants penetration, and what you can do to please her. Of course, you also have to realize that many (if not most women) will not get an orgasm on vaginal penetration alone. So it’s not simply a matter of doing 1,000 strokes and demanding your girl orgasm already! You have to learn her wants and needs, how she likes foreplay and direct pressure, and then figure out a way to last just as long as she wants. PE is largely based on perception, your choice of lover, and your choice of the night. (Yes, contrary to what you’ve heard, anyone can have a bad night, sex is not mechanical in the slightest)

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Why it’s important to seek help and no, premature ejaculation is not a life-threatening condition, so though it may affect your ability to prolong your lifeblood, assuming you have to keep a lover interested in you in order to procreate! One major problem is that guys avoid seeking help for PE out of embarrassment. They either don’t know they have a problem or are too prideful to look up remedies. This quickly earns them the reputation of being bad or weak lovers with their girlfriend(s). The guy is too sensitive to take criticism and ends up breaking up the relationship out of spite. The more often a guy does this, the less likely he is to actually learn how to be a better lover. 

If you never admit there is a problem, you will never seek help. And the longer you go having sex or masturbating without learning how to control yourself, the more difficult the problem will be to fix later on. Indeed, there are forty-year-olds that are forced to see a sex therapist to help them overcome severe cases of premature ejaculation. When it comes to sex, the sooner, the better; can’t we all agree on that?

So, it is suggested that you see a Sexologist Doctor or Sex (doctor) therapist.

Speak to a Sexual health expert doctor and find out the real cause of your condition or situation. It is highly advisable that you do not take off-shelf and quick-fix medicines such as Viagra pills. It will make things worse for you and your partner in the long term. No, doubt these medicines will give you amazing results in the beginning, but later your sensual feeling of sex will diminish and perish one day. Premature ejaculation problems will lead to erectile dysfunction, where you will even find it hard to get an erection or hold it for long enough to reach climax. 

Just pick up your phone and call Dr. Arora’s Clinic to book your appointment with our doctors, and reclaim your sexual health again. Or click here to book your appointment online