Trust issues are a major strain on relationships. Once trust is lost, it can be difficult to regain. There are a few good ideas for determining if your trust issues are worth maintaining your relationship, or if you are better to let the relationship walk.
Becoming obsessed with spying on a partner to determine if they are not to be trusted could become a bigger problem than the original trust issue. People have a tendency to become so consumed in what their partner is doing at every moment that they become obsessed with following him or her.
If you have had a trust issue with a partner, the best thing to do is either accept it, change it or leave it. It is important to evaluate the amount of stress created, and if the relationship is worth keeping.
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