Mention sex and million thoughts would come across your mind. Sex is something that every individual on this earth gets involved in at some point of time in their life. While some feel curious to know more about it, a few maybe sex starved and are obsessed about it. In both the cases, they can end up picking some baseless myths about sex from random sources, which is an outcome of sheer lack of knowledge and if you follow these blindly, then you can never enjoy your sex life. Check out some of these meaningless notions that you may thought were true:
Everyone knows how to perform sex: Most individuals believe that no matter what, their partner would know how to perform sex. NO! It’s not like that. No one is born with this knowledge, practice makes perfect. Everyone learns as and when they perform the act. If you think that reading a few articles on sex or gathering some knowledge about how to do it in bed can help you do the act well, you are grossly mistaken.
Sex is incomplete without intercourse: Now who said this? Of course intercourse is the peak point of a sexual interaction but you can’t say that the act is incomplete if you didn’t have intercourse. The act of penetration does hold importance but if a couple has enjoyed their sexual encounter minus the intercourse; it can be as special for them as it would have been with a round of intercourse.
Sex is always painful: This is a sheer myth and it’s mostly in women’s mind. While having sex for the first time, you may face some problems, pain in the sexual organs, hymen rupture, bleeding etc, but that does not denote that every sexual interaction you would have in future, would be painful. Rather sex has been a proven way to relieve pain and stress. So get over this myth and enjoy sex like it is supposed to be.
No pleasure without orgasm: Orgasm happens when both the partners have climaxed during a sexual act. But sometimes, your partner might not be able to reach an orgasm yet they enjoyed the other parts of the sexual interaction. So in this case, even in absence of an orgasm, there can be sufficient amount of pleasure.
Oral sex isn’t that pleasurable: You may not know but it’s a fact that women enjoy oral sex much more than actual intercourse. Even men find oral stimulation very arousing. Though this won’t mean that oral sex can be used as a substitute for actual sexual intercourse all the time but it certainly is a great way to please your partner, and it even helps in breaking the bedroom monotony.
Remember, it’s very important for you to come out of these myths, or else your sex life can get adversely affected. If you want to enjoy a blissful and healthy bedroom life, just concentrate of the sexual act, enjoy with your partner and let things happen with flow, educate yourself about sex and if you have doubts or questions, seek advice from a qualified sexologist and do not bother about any wrong notions that you may have heard or read somewhere.
