{"id":1680,"date":"2016-11-29T05:21:25","date_gmt":"2016-11-29T10:51:25","guid":{"rendered":"\/\/www.draroras.com\/blog\/?p=1680"},"modified":"2016-11-29T05:21:25","modified_gmt":"2016-11-29T10:51:25","slug":"how-to-feel-attracted-again-to-your-spouse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.draroras.com\/blog\/how-to-feel-attracted-again-to-your-spouse\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Feel Attracted (Again) to Your Spouse"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Our culture transmits a grossly distorted and limited definition of “attraction,” viewing it primarily at a physical and sexual level. We talk about \u201cchemistry\u201d and \u201cbutterflies\u201d and use these qualities as barometers for how \u201cin love\u201d we are. When asked what qualities you want in a partner, the first thing people often emphasize is the physical attraction.<\/p>\n

What’s left when the glimmer and sizzle of the infatuation stage fizzle, as they inevitably will? If you chose your partner primarily for his or her physical attributes and there isn\u2019t a strong foundation of friendship and real attraction, the relationship will likely fall apart. That’s when people often flock to the internet, where they typically find articles that espouse the cultural myth that “doubt means don’t” and “if you’re not attracted it’s time to leave.”<\/p>\n

Instead, here are a few things to ask yourself which will help reconnect you with your spouse or partner both emotionally and physically.<\/p>\n