{"id":116,"date":"2011-02-15T14:34:40","date_gmt":"2011-02-15T20:04:40","guid":{"rendered":"\/\/www.draroras.com\/blog\/?p=116"},"modified":"2023-09-21T06:31:51","modified_gmt":"2023-09-21T12:01:51","slug":"6-blunders-that-men-make-in-bed","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.draroras.com\/blog\/6-blunders-that-men-make-in-bed\/","title":{"rendered":"6 Common Mistakes That Men Make in Bed During Sex"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Men in India are generally more aggressive and active in bed when compared to their female counterparts. When they show this aggression in bed, there are several goof-ups they can make, which their female partner may not like much.<\/p>\n<p>These are the mistakes that men make while performing the act of sex, or even during arousal. These mistakes can be related to their sexual performance, behavior in bed, attitude towards female partner, expectations from sex and so on. Here are a few of these faux pas:<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-3401 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.draroras.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/mistakes-men-make-during-sex.png?resize=1024%2C512&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"6 Common mistakes men make during sex\" width=\"1024\" height=\"512\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.draroras.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/mistakes-men-make-during-sex.png?w=1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.draroras.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/mistakes-men-make-during-sex.png?resize=300%2C150&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.draroras.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/mistakes-men-make-during-sex.png?resize=768%2C384&amp;ssl=1 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_80 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.draroras.com\/blog\/6-blunders-that-men-make-in-bed\/#The_6_Common_mistakes_men_make_during_sex\" >The 6 Common mistakes men make during sex<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.draroras.com\/blog\/6-blunders-that-men-make-in-bed\/#1_Dont_neglect_foreplay\" >1. Don\u2019t neglect foreplay:<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/www.draroras.com\/blog\/6-blunders-that-men-make-in-bed\/#2_Dont_leave_her_halfway\" >2. Don\u2019t leave her halfway:<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/www.draroras.com\/blog\/6-blunders-that-men-make-in-bed\/#3_Dont_treat_her_like_a_porn_star\" >3. Don\u2019t treat her like a porn star:<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/www.draroras.com\/blog\/6-blunders-that-men-make-in-bed\/#4_Dont_abuse_her_verbally\" >4. Don\u2019t abuse her verbally:<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/www.draroras.com\/blog\/6-blunders-that-men-make-in-bed\/#5_Dont_go_wild\" >5. Don\u2019t go wild:<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/www.draroras.com\/blog\/6-blunders-that-men-make-in-bed\/#6_Dont_be_over_demanding\" >6. Don\u2019t be over demanding:<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_6_Common_mistakes_men_make_during_sex\"><\/span><strong>The 6 Common mistakes men make during sex<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_Dont_neglect_foreplay\"><\/span><strong>1. Don\u2019t neglect foreplay:<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Men usually indulge in arousal acts for a little time and expect a fully aroused partner in bed. Your woman might be seeking more of it. Don\u2019t behave as if you are just interested in intercourse. Stimulate your partner properly, so that she feels more excited and is comfortable in bed when the time comes to go all the way.<\/p>\n<p>If you want to know about <a href=\"https:\/\/www.draroras.com\/blog\/what-is-foreplay-meaning-in-a-relationship\/\"><strong>what Is foreplay<\/strong><\/a> meaning in a relationship? then read this blog.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_Dont_leave_her_halfway\"><\/span><strong>2. Don\u2019t leave her halfway:<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Men often reach their climax much faster and much before their female partner has had an orgasm. Be thoughtful of your partners needs, and try different things like oral sex to satisfy her.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_Dont_treat_her_like_a_porn_star\"><\/span><strong>3. Don\u2019t treat her like a porn star:<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>It\u2019s not bad to take hints from porn movies and sex magazines to add fun to your sex life. But if you start treating your partner like a porn star and expect her to do exactly the same stuff that you saw on screen or read about, it can make things go terribly wrong.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_Dont_abuse_her_verbally\"><\/span><strong>4. Don\u2019t abuse her verbally:<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Some men have the tendency to get verbally abusive, rude and arrogant when they do not get the desired pleasure in bed or when the woman is not participating with much interest. This is certainly not going to be good for your sex life and overall relationship.<\/p>\n<p>This not only lowers the respect they have for you but they can also develop a feeling of resentment towards your abusive behavior, which definitely shows up during intimacy.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5_Dont_go_wild\"><\/span><strong>5. Don\u2019t go wild:<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Some men love trying out wild and bold moves in bed, thinking that these will give more pleasure to them and their partner. But when they turn into a wild animal and can\u2019t control their wild gestures, the passion can get killed and it becomes a big bedroom blunder.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"6_Dont_be_over_demanding\"><\/span><strong>6. Don\u2019t be over demanding:<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Men are more experimental and daring when it comes to performing sex, and they often expect their female partner to act in the same way and fully participate in whatever \u201cnew\u201d he wants to do in bed. But being over demanding can sometimes negate the sexual pleasure for her, and can make her to withdraw within herself, and she may become reluctant to become intimate with you.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s good to experiment in bed but be mindful of your partner\u2019s needs and feelings. Talking before hand about the different things you want to try in bed, to make sure that your partner is comfortable with them, is always a good idea. Be gentle and understanding, it will go a long way in helping you spice up your sex life and save you from making mistakes that can throw a spanner in your works.<\/p>\n<p>If you have any other queries, you can book a <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.draroras.com\/online-consultation\">sex doctor&#8217;s online consultation<\/a><\/strong> to get your answers.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Men in India are generally more aggressive and active in bed when compared to their female counterparts. When they show this aggression in bed, there are several goof-ups they can make, which their female partner may not like much. 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