Penis Size: Does It Really Matter?
Deepak Arora
Member: American Association of Sexuality Educators Counselors and Therapists.
It’s been a myth since ages that longer the size of the male sex organ, better would be the sexual act. Following this notion, Indian males do get over concerned about their penis size. Due to this myth, males have started believing that their smaller penis size cannot satisfy the female partner in bed and due to this they take all possible steps to increase their organ size and subsequently improve their sexual performance. While some would resort to medications or penis enlargement drugs, there are some who get a feeling of being dejected and get guilt for being a non-performer in bed.
But is this belief really true? Does it hold any medical backing? Are there any scientific studies proving that longer organ size mean satisfying sex? Not really! If we go by the true meaning of sex, it implies an enjoyable act where both partners are happy and content at the end. It has got nothing to with a male’s organ size. What matters the most is the right technique and the penetration into a female’s organ (vagina). Once the male partner is able to insert his penis into female’s vaginal opening, then it is the erection and time period of the sexual act that holds much importance for the couple. If the penetration happens in a proper way and the female partner is able to reach a healthy and pleasurable orgasm, worries related to organ size really doesn’t make any difference.
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So couples who start believing and following these myths blindly shall think hard and instead of looking for solutions from random sources, it is better if you consult your doctor to put an end to your worries. During a sexual act, the male sexual organ plays a major role in reaching the climax but the size seriously does not make any difference. Here’s the list of things related to the organ size that can lead to healthy sex and size does not hold any importance…Proper erection: What matters the most for a male partner is to get proper erection in his penis, which is possible only when the partner is fully aroused for intimacy. Here the size of penis won’t play any role because smaller or larger, unless the organ gains appropriate erection, it cannot perform the act of intercourse properly. There can be a chance that a good penis size fails to get erected easily whereas a comparatively smaller penis gains full erection. To attain erection easily and fully, it’s suggested that you indulge in a lot of foreplay and touch your partner all over so you’re fully aroused by the time you take each other into bed. Males who suffer from problems of Erectile Dysfunction fail to get a good erection, so it is advice that they must visit a sex expert immediately.
Insertion technique: A male should know the right technique of inserting his sex organ into the female’s organ. He should not act hasty because it might lead to an uncomfortable act where the pain increases and pleasure gets reduced. It is obvious here that size won’t matter, as once you know how to get inside a woman’s vaginal opening, nothing can come in way of your sexual pleasure. It is very clear here that the penis size should be average because a too small penis would obviously not reach the woman’s trigger zone and thus leaving her dissatisfied. So no matter whatever is the penis size, if you know the technique right and hits the female’s moan zones correctly, you are sure to enjoy the sexual bliss. In this case, never take things for granted and don’t be too over confident that you know it all how to do sex. You might be assuming that you have properly inserted your organ but unless you put it fully inside the female organ, the sexual pleasure remains incomplete.
Holding the erection: It’s very often the male partner is able to get good erection but fails to hold it on for a longer period that is required to please the female partner. To overcome this problem, size won’t help anyhow because it’s all inside your body. It is the inner body system and muscles in the sex organs, which need to be in place so that the erection can stay on for a longer duration. It often happens that men lose their erection even before the act has started or in between the act. It’s very important to understand that if you lose erection while performing the act, it would not only dissatisfy you sexually but would also affect your relationship adversely. The best way to overcome this problem is to perform the act with a bit of perfection and confidence. If you keep trying inserting your organ inside and it keeps coming out, then of course the erection cannot stay on for long.
Timely ejaculation: A larger penis may give more pleasure in the beginning but if the male partner is unable to ejaculate on time i.e. reaching the climax along with the female and after a desired gap, the act is of no use. Hence timely ejaculation holds greater importance than the size of the organ. Not only the intercourse but even during masturbation (hand discharge), men often ejaculate too early even before they can take pleasure in the act and here again the size of their organ plays no significant role. It might be their technique or sex drive which decides on their ejaculation time. It’s important to understand that nothing can happen too quickly. Hence, while the act of intercourse is on, don’t just wait to reach climax rather move slowly and enjoy every moment. Males who suffer from this problem of premature ejaculation (that is reaching the climax quickly or before the female partner), they must get it treated by a sex specialist.
Hence, for all those who still want to believe that size can do any good to their bedroom performance, they must remember that: there can be a possibility where a man with a larger penis is unable to satisfy his partner and on the other hand a male with a smaller organ gives maximum sexual pleasure to his woman. So size does not matter. Still if couples are really concerned about the same, it is always better to consult a specialist who can guide you well in case there is some size-related troubles. Otherwise, it is always better to overlook these baseless myths and enjoy a healthy sexual relationship
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