Mention the term ‘sex’ and all you would strike your mind is dim lighting, an aroused partner by your side and both of you geared up for some wild action in bed. Well, this is how most couples most would want to enjoy their sex performance. Very little do they realize the importance of moments before sex that can boost their sexual mood and let them perform in a much better way. Things like love gestures, seductive techniques and lovely words exchanged just before jumping into bed for sex matter the most and this is termed as ‘foreplay’.

Foreplay is basically the arousal phase, before the main act of sex (intercourse), where the emphasis is to build the sexual mood by performing certain acts like kissing, romantic teasing, stripping, oral sex, masturbating each other, caressing, licking each other body parts, whispering romantic words, seductive moves etc, which ultimately get your partner to perform the sexual act with more passion. Foreplay is intended to create and increase sexual excitement.

Foreplay, by all means, affects your sexual performance. But remember, if a healthy and prolonged foreplay can guarantee you an ultimate sexual bliss, at the same time, an unsatisfying and hasty foreplay act may ruin it all. Thus, it is suggested that you pay full attention to perform each foreplay act with concentration and make all possible efforts to please your partner. Another relevance of foreplay in today’s modern life is to de stress the mind before you actually perform the act of ‘sex’ because a tired mind and an exhausted body won’t let you enjoy the intimate moments in a satisfactory way.

 

There are times when you would want to simply slip between the sheets and get involved in some wild sex, but as mentioned a nice foreplay session can help you enhance your pleasure. So here are some easy ways to prolong the foreplay stretch so that by the time you are geared for an intimate session, your sexual senses are fully aroused…

1. Create a comfort zone: Make the most of foreplay session by letting your partner feel comfortable with your presence. Expecting them to come close and bare it all at once is not fair, so ensure that you do all possible things to create a comfort zone for them. Things like arranging for a romantic dinner, inviting them to sit on your lap etc, can make them feel at ease and will surely add to your moments of bliss.

 

2. Indulge in passionate kissing: Not many couples would give importance to kissing their partner and would stop after a few pecks on the cheek. Remember that the softest part of your body – your lips - can do wonders, so never ignore it. Kiss your partner in the most sensuous way and while kissing, you can also whisper some loving words in their ears that will evoke their sexual senses.

 

3. Do some dirty talking: Erotic and sex oriented conversations always set the mood right for a gratifying sexual act. And if that talk happens to be a bit dirty, nothing can go wrong. It could be anything from discussing a porn scene or sharing your wildest sexual fantasies with each other – dirty talks have always proved to be a very effective way to build on the excitement. 

4. Touch the trigger zones: Try to figure out the body parts where your partner loves to be touched. Right from their earlobes, slender neck, to chest (men) or twin assets (women) navel area, and private parts, ensure that you are well aware of your partner’s moaning zones. Touching them on these parts would excite them as much, which would be sufficient to boost their sexual performance.

While couples would learn well how to perform the foreplay acts in a proper way, still they would commit some common mistakes, which can irritate the other partner. So, here is a list of goof-ups which you must avoid, which can spoil your enjoyable moments…

 

1. Avoid getting too wet: Gestures like licking and sucking your partner maybe quite stimulating but do it to a limit. It might not be a pleasing experience if you make them wet all over the body. Such situation would only make them feel uncomfortable and it might annoy them. Hence, use less of your tongue and saliva, rather make the most of your lips and let them feel blessed. 

 

2. Don’t make it painful: Though it is often said ‘no pain no gain’ but excess of pain can adversely affect your sexual pleasure. So avoid landing in situations where you physically hurt your mate. Though acts like scratching them hard with your nails and giving harsh love bites, chances are high that they can’t enjoy further and the mood for sex comes to an end. Therefore, be soft and allow your partner to seek pleasure in your every touch.

3. Never seem to be in a hurry: It’s often males who appear to be too keen to get over with arousing acts and simply rush towards the bedroom for some ‘sex’. But this may backfire. Sounding too desperate to climax cannot be always a nice thing for the other partner and they feel disown. Also, if you do not carry out the foreplay act with full dedication, you won’t be able to enjoy in bed too, as making love to a lesser aroused partner won’t be that pleasurable. Thus, remain patient and let things happen slowly with a flow.

 

4. Stay away from wild moves: Agreed that wild sex brings maximum gratification but acting too wild during foreplay stretch can do more harm than good. Being loved and caressed by a wild partner can often be frustrating, as you do not enjoy any of the moves and it’s the wildness that keeps bothering you. So avoid being wild and always be ready for seducing moments.

 

So if you keep all these dos and don’ts in mind while performing the foreplay act, it’s sure that you won’t miss out on any special moment with your spouse. Yet, if you face any problem or your partner gets turn-off by any of certain moves or gestures during arousal period, then do not hesitate at all and seek an expert’s help without any delay. The experts doling out their advice would not only help you overcome your libido anxieties but they can also tell you better ways of carrying out the foreplay acts. Remember, it’s better to kill the chances of any conflicts before it kills your sex relationship. Therefore, either keep a checklist of this foreplay guide or turn to your expert for further assistance.

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