In the final phase of lovemaking after desire and sufficient arousal a woman often achieves orgasm. But a persistent delay in, or complete absence of, orgasm that causes the woman marked distress has been labeled "female orgasmic disorder" (FOD). The condition can be primary, meaning that the woman has never reached an orgasm, or secondary, the woman can no longer achieve orgasm. It can be caused by:

Sexual or physical abuse: Women with a history of abuse are at greater risk for FOD.

Medications can contribute to FOD: Excessive amounts of alcohol, drugs that reduce blood pressure, few antidepressants, anti-anxiety drugs and sedatives can delay or impede orgasm.

Inadequate Sex: We have to learn how to give and receive sexual stimulation and satisfaction. Due to a various reasons some women are uncomfortable discussing and exploring the sexual techniques that might bring on or intensify an orgasm. Your partner’s Premature Ejaculation or Erectile Dysfunction may be one reason behind it.

Pelvic floor prolapsed:  Women suffering from prolapsed often experience an urge to urinate and complain of pressure in the vagina or rectum.

Overcoming FOD :

Counseling: For victims of sexual abuse it can help and reclaim her sexuality.

Changing medicines: You may need to switch or even eliminate prescription drugs that have a negative impact on sexual function. Of course, you must work with your doctor before making any changes to your medication.

Communication: Every woman is different; it is every woman's responsibility to tell her partner what she likes. And if you feel, FOD is due to your partner’s incapability- then tell him clearly so that he should get the proper treatment for his problems.

Kegel exercises:  To strengthen these muscles, start and stop your stream of urine several times.