Reasons Behind Rising Sex Problems
Deepak Arora
Member: American Association of Sexuality Educators Counselors and Therapists.
Are you married but not enjoying a gratifying sexual life? Do you face problems which come in way of your sexual pleasure? Are there reasons which do not please your partner in bed? Do you find yourself a victim of sex problems but do not know why they happen. Well, it’s time that you delve deeper into the matter and trace the possible reasons behind these sexual problems.
The most common sexual problems rising at an uncontrollable pace is that of Erectile Dysfunction (ED) (where the male organ fails to attain or sustain the desired erection) and Premature Ejaculation (where the male partner is unable to hold on the ejaculation and reaches the climax too soon even before the act is performed properly).
These problems can be well attributed to physical as well as psychological reasons. If you have a stressful mind, you simply cannot focus on arousing your sexual senses and thus do not get a proper erection. And even if you manage to get erection, due to several other reasons you fail to hold it on for a longer period.
While most couples have inhibitions to come out in open and discuss these with their doctors to find out the reason but it is very important to understand that they seek an expert’s opinion, go for the treatments or relevant advice at the earliest to "nip the evil in the bud".
Find below some common reasons behind these rising sex problems of ED and Premature Ejaculation. These will certainly give you a clearer picture and we hope you get the encouragement to sort these out with a sex expert.
Lack of education: The most important reason behind any existing sexual problem is lack of sex knowledge. In the absence of sufficient sources to refer to, couples end up picking up facts and information from random sources, which are wrong in most of the cases. Even if they find out that they are suffering from any sex problem which has affected their bedroom performance, they would not know where to go, whom to approach and what to do about it and its nothing but sheer lack of education. This unawareness would obviously make them more prone to increase any chances of having sex problems. Hesitation to consult a specialist: The term modernization looks good only in books but when it comes to practical life; couples still have an introvert mindset, especially in matters relating to sexuality. Despite being aware of the fact only a qualified sexologist can give the best possible solution to deal with a sex problem, only a few couples would gather the courage to move up to a sex specialist. The hesitation of approaching a doctor and discussing the problem overtly worsens the situation and in this course of wasting time, the minute sexual difficulty can take form of a serious long term problem.
Job stress: Tensions at workplace is becoming a common factor that disrupts an individual’s sexual system. Due to office worries and conflicts giving strain to the mind, couples often fail to concentrate on the sexual act and hence do not get the desired erection. This is more of a psychological reason which affects their mind and gradually influences their sexual performance. Sex problem is not only in the body but in the mind also and whenever there are stressful days due to job problems, it has all reasons to disturb their sex performance and create problems.
Wrong sex positions: In a bid to try new positions in bed, couples often end up paying a huge price by falling prey to some or the other sex problems. Whenever couples go out of the way to try something new and different including anal sex, having intercourse while standing against the wall, doing it on an uneven floor or on a sofa without proper balance, it has all possibilities to leave them unsatisfied. Also, in most of the cases, these wrong positions may lead to premature ejaculation, as the posture maybe so wrong that it doesn’t allow proper penetration. Besides this, the continuous trial of wrong positions makes them more likely to develop sex problems in later life.
Wrong medications: Word of mouth is not always a wise thing and unfortunately most couples go by their friends’ advices when it comes to treating any sex problems. As soon as they detect any sex problem, they won’t mind walking up to the local chemist shop and try any available medicine. Such non-prescribed medicines have more side-effects and harms than any good to your sex life. Such wrong medications may tamper your sex organ so much so that even a problem that can be cured becomes complicated.
Lifestyle patterns: The so called modern generation is so dependent on their showy ways of lives that they fail to realise its aftermaths. Their excessive dependence on drugs, high alcohol intake and frequent smoking habits etc kind of paralyses their body system and affect their sexual performance to a large extent thus leaving them with curable or non-curable sex problems. While smoking affects their lungs, alcohol has a direct impact on their heart, so problems like not gaining proper erection or losing it soon can occur.
The main reason behind rising sex problems is unawareness and insufficient information as to how to go about it. But with this complete guide explaining all possible reasons that can contribute towards your rising sex problems, tracing solution is just a step away. So make sure, that you do not let any of these reasons overshadow your sexual performance and deal with them on time, to enjoy a satisfying sex life. Yet if you find yourself in any of the above-mentioned situation, then do not waste even a single minute and consult a sex expert at the earliest who would not only resolve the issue but would also give you an advice that would last forever.
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